Have other women with an underactive thyroid and menopausal gone off ?

I am in my late 40's and suffer with an underactive thyroid and am also going through the menopause. My problem is I have no ual urges at all. This has been going on for the last two years and it is causing problems in my marriage as obviously my husband wants but I wont do it just to keep him happy. Is this normal and is there anything I can do to get my drive back as I used to really enjoy ?